I realized the other today that I had been swallowing men's complaining or bragging (which is the only the other side of the same coin) almost all my life. And I am not only talking about friends, lovers, colleagues or relatives but singers in bands. This was pretty prevalent in my twenties during the 90's. Listen to Genesis, Tribe Called Quest, Nirvana or Jeff Buckley, Rage Against The Machine, all the stuff I so adored tune in to, and you'll see what I mean. What does it say about me?